Find Happiness 47: Alone at a Party… But Comfortable
When you are part of a social gathering and at some point find yourself alone, do you feel uncomfortable? If so, you need put more inner peace in your tank. I am by no means saying that you should be...
View ArticleFind Happiness 48: Inner Peace – The Adventure Game
The discovery of your inner peace is like an adventure game that you play on your computer — like ‘Myst’, ‘Riven’ or ‘Drawn’ — with one intriguing difference. When you play those games, you can very...
View ArticleFind Happiness 49: A Tornado Story
You are sitting at home, looking out of the window watching the rain. The wind howls while leaves and dust swirl by your field of vision. The storm intensifies. Suddenly the roof of your garage rips...
View ArticleFind Happiness 50: Inner Peace Tips Everywhere
When it comes to understanding yourself (which is synonymous with finding inner peace) and you want to get it done during this lifetime, it’s usually a good idea to have a guide or teacher rather than...
View ArticleFind Happiness 51: Overwhelmed by Stress?
Worry and anxiety are like swarms of crabs. They hook on tight with their claws and keep biting you to distraction. Wouldn’t it be nice if instead of feeding on you they stayed on the ground and...
View ArticleFind Happiness 52: The Inner Peace Fortress
There is a safe, unassailable place beyond your mind. This is a place where thoughts cannot touch you. It is a place of peace, strength and security, from where you can watch the play of thoughts...
View ArticleFind Happiness 53: Four Major Guidelines
Everyone wants to be happy, even though it often seems that some people are determined to be unhappy at all costs. It is not difficult to be constantly happy. Achieving this boils down to your beliefs...
View ArticleFind Happiness 54: How to Stop Brooding
If you have decided to walk the road to happiness, you might have an addiction that hinders you from reaching the goal. That addiction is… brooding. When I say brooding I’m talking about obsessing on...
View ArticleFind Happiness 55: Belief Prerequisites
There are millions of people who are resigned to being unhappy. They feel that unhappiness is an inescapable component of the human condition, that it cannot be avoided and that it is their destiny....
View ArticleFind Happiness 56: Inner Peace, Always There
Throughout this website I have emphasized that we each have a state of unshakeable inner peace already in us, and that if you are trying to become peaceful, you should locate it and operate from it as...
View ArticleFind Happiness 57: Locate Inner Peace NOW
We all want to be happy and peaceful at heart. More easily said than done! Fact is, inner peace, which equates to unshakeable happiness, is already within each of us. But where is it? Here’s the...
View ArticleFind Happiness 58: Adopt Forgiveness Now
Most life coaches, spiritual guides and religious teachers advocate forgiveness as one of the important characteristics one should adopt for self-improvement. Why? Consider a situation where you do not...
View ArticleFind Happiness 59: Breaking Free from Seductive Thoughts
No, I am not talking about thoughts related to seducing someone. My definition of a seductive thought is a thought that suggests doing something that you: Like a lot Can do without difficulty in your...
View ArticleFind Happiness 60: Don’t Worry About Your Mind
Feel you’re going crazy? Worried about your mind’s quirks? Think you’re not as smart as your peers? All these are attitudes which probably everyone has at one time or another. First and foremost:...
View ArticleFind Happiness 61: Don’t Depend on Others’ Courtesy
Do these sound familiar?: “He didn’t ask how my cold was. He’s brazenly insensitive and I’m really upset.” “She didn’t ask after my mother. She’s so selfish, I’m really upset.” “He didn’t ask about...
View ArticleFind Happiness 62: How to Make an Unhappy Life Happy
If you think your life is lousy, believe one thing first: you can make your life a pleasure to live. It just calls for a change in mindset, which takes a bit of mental work until the job’s done....
View ArticleFind Happiness 63: Don’t Expect Too Much of Others
Apart from fundamental expectations such as politeness, honesty, relevant responses and non-violent behavior, it is really not in your best interest to expect more from other people. I’m talking...
View ArticleFind Happiness 64: Are You Over-Analyzing What Others Say?
Does your interaction with certain other people bug you? Does that interaction have a tendency to ruin what would be an otherwise peaceful half day or full day? Here’s one possible reason it’s...
View ArticleFind Happiness 65: Dealing with Difficult People
Almost everyone has encountered another person who has been very abrasive . It is very disconcerting and unpleasant having to interact with such an individual. Here is a strategy to deal with this...
View ArticleFind Happiness 66: Afraid Your Thoughts Will Come True?
You’re angry with someone and a mildly malicious thought about them crosses your mind. Shortly afterwards, great misfortune befalls them. You are wracked with guilt, thinking that the harm that befell...
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